The Process in the Beginning
My second assumption is that if you’ve already gone this far down the road within gifts, is that you’ve already had some kind of exposure with the Angels. This is why I said in the introduction that I wouldn’t be spending a lot of time in regard to this subject in particular. What I will do is go over a basic procedure that I personally used when I first started reaching out to the Angels, even if it’s only useful for you to use when you are teaching others as a great structure for somebody to grow on top of. First thing is to decide what image you would like to attach to which Angel. Some people use Google for this and Google pictures of Archangel Raphael or Archangel Michael and then hold this picture in their mind before they begin. This sets the stage within your own mind and your intention at that moment for your team to be very clear on who you want to be connected to. This also gives you a good break mentally to know that this is now the time that you’re going to be speaking with an Angel versus only speaking with your team. Your attitude and professionalism should reflect that. Second is to light a candle, this not only shows respect for the Angel, but it gives you an opportunity to break that connection within your own mind. While the candle is lit, you’re speaking with the Angel, when you extinguish the candle, the conversation is complete. Practicing these conversations in a very purposeful manner will not only help streamline your own thought process in those moments but it also stops you from accidentally reaching out or inadvertently wasting somebody’s time, which if done too many times could lead you into a bit of hot water. Third, be clear about what you’re asking for before you begin the conversation and then have the wisdom to listen afterwards. Make sure that before you conclude the conversation you thank them or show gratitude for their time in listening to you, even if there’s nothing to be done at that moment.
I know this statement sounds like an abundance of common sense, but you would be surprised at how many times I have to reteach this very thing. Learning how to recognize and how to remain centered when something unexpected crosses your plate is very much a practicable skill. When asking an Angel to help and they tell you “No,” it can be very difficult to not take it personally. In this very brash example, it may not be about you at all, but this is one of those things that is very easy to understand cerebrally though, sometimes can leave a mark emotionally. It’s perfectly understandable that somebody would be disappointed in that situation. Please understand this is an extreme example and one that has happened very few times to me, but it’s a whopper when it does. Oftentimes you can default that you as a Healer will leave that person better than you found them, for your benefit that is a fairly safe assumption. The reason being is you may be there asking about healing for somebody else, but the Angel is taking into account your experience as well. This is one of the biggest reasons that I promote developing those relationships with the Angels as such an important thing. Once you have that relationship flowing and the understanding between you, the shorthand often explains, and you may feel more comfortable in that moment to ask why or why not. More importantly is getting to know the differences between the Angels and their sense of humor, some Angels will joke around and enjoy fun and maybe even the odd prank whereas some can be much more serious. Again, think about it like the relationships in your life for the people that you know well, it’s easy to tell who you can joke around with and who you can’t. I use this because it’s an easy pulse to take to know if you are within or outside of boundaries.
To recap an easy framework to start developing that relationship:
1. Clearly visualize who you’re wanting to speak to and why
2. Light a candle for the duration of the conversation
3. Be clear before you begin on what it is you want to ask
4. Listen
5. Thank them for their time
6. Blow out the candle
There is no one way to build a relationship. All the different stories, modalities and religions teach a different way and none of them are wrong. Though, what I’d like to convey to you in this course is that if you approach it as building a relationship and you treat it with the utmost respect possible and even a sense of formality, if need be, you’ll never go wrong. It’s only the details that seem ritualistic or important to each of their stories but if you build the relationship with you and them, that relationship will unfold in such a beautiful way that you know it to be right and you can’t put a price on that. It’s also something to become a bit of a fingerprint because your context is different from the next person that you’re going to teach this to and those relationships will look different than yours, as they are meant to because you are very different people. So, try, explore and as I like to say spiritually socialize and try to have some fun along the way.